But my practice habits are. I've spent time in front of the mirror isolating the exact moment in the draw where my form goes bad. I've found a way to know what centered feels like as I stand square. I've practiced releasing without excess motion. I've gotten better, and it's fun.
There are a million parallels between learning archery and teaching music. My favorite thing right now is the way our teacher really speaks to me and Steve very differently. Intentionally so, and in a way that is welcome and necessary. Steve has a different body from me, obviously, and approaches the bow more powerfully, but still has his own form issues to work on.
I had a student get upset with me the other day. I was talking to him - yet again - about relaxing his upper body and using relaxed air. Without the oboe, this tenth grader looks like a normal person. He moves his body naturally and breathes like a human. As soon as he starts to play, though, his entire torso becomes
completely tense and the sound is constricted. We have worked through many loosening-up-exercises, and a week or so ago we had a breakthrough, and he was proud.
Is this something everyone has to get through? Does everyone learn about using Conversational Air before they get to be good?
No, I admitted. Some people never have trouble with relaxed playing and I never have to talk about this. Some people I talk to about engaging their muscles MORE. It just depends on what their particular problem is.
My student was surprisingly dismayed. I think he was looking for the oboe to be a set of concrete steps, like chapters in a textbook, or levels in a video game.
But that's not it. Everyone comes in from a different place, with their own body and their own attitude and their own needs. It's my job to meet them where they are and bring them to the next place, and ideally to do so week after week until progress happens and they feel it themselves.
When I began teaching I only knew how to say the things teachers had told me before, and it took some time before I realized just how creative you have to be to work with someone whose problems are different from yours. It's ceaselessly fascinating.
And I'm fascinated and impressed, at the moment, with our archery instructor, who has made every one of us better in only a few sessions. What a treat to be a learner in someone else's experienced hands for a change!